Social media wellness is a choice. Command your mind and fingers to practice a healthy social routine daily. -k
My previous blog post focused on the four stressors of social media that Bailey Parnell talked about in her TED talk. In her speech, she discusses the four steps to social media wellness as well. She states that social media is here to stay and evolve, but the way people make use of it can change in hopes to reduce mental health issues that our own social media practices become responsible for.

- Recognize the problem: “Awareness is critical” (Parnell, 2017). Start by evaluating your social media habits. What is your social presence like? How much time do you spend on social media on a regular basis? How do you react to other people’s content online? Answering some of these questions for yourself will help you understand what your social media habits are like. Once you recognize the problem you are already one step closer to practicing social media wellness.
- Audit your social media diet: “The same way we monitor what goes into our mouth, monitor what goes into your head and heart” (Parnell, 2017). Self-awareness of what and how you go about using social media and behaving on social media is crucial to your mental health. Are you constantly checking your social currency on a recent post you posted online? Evaluating your behavior online will help you become self-aware of your habits. That way you are able to monitor what you are consuming, why you are behaving a certain way, and how that can be fixed.
- Create a better online experience: Is your self-worth tied up with social media and what you see other people do or post or talk about online? Parnell shares that his friend felt as if his self-worth was tied with social media, particularly how celebrities made him feel. And, he ended up unfollowing the celebrities and more that made him feel unpleasant. Similarly, Parnell felt for her it was the people who knew that made her feel a certain way that made her delete them off of her profile. Recently, I deleted a photographer off of Instagram who is one of the best wedding and creative fashion photographers of Edmonton. Though when I did a shoot with him that he initiated he promised he would return the pictures within a week. It has been a year now and I see him post several times daily online from other recent shoots, but he did not have the courtesy to respond to my numerous messages/calls, therefore, I finally chose to remove him from my social media so, I do not get upset or angry every time something that he posts comes up on my feed. One piece of great advice Parnell offers is that “you do not have to follow your friends online.” Some of our friends, family or peers that we know personally are not the same online. You do not have to follow a friend who posts “50 pictures from the same concert from the same angle” (Parnell, 2017).
- Model good behavior: “Social media is a tool and it’s a tool that can be used for good” (Parnell, 2017). Treat others with respect and how they deserve to be treated online as well as in person. “Social can tear you down or it can lift you up” (Parnell, 2017). The choice is yours!

Social media does not have to hurt your mental health (Parnell, 2017). Make your social media experience by using it wisely and in a healthy manner.
Source: Talks, T. (2017, June 22). Retrieved February 27, 2019, from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Czg_9C7gw0o





















